
I never thought I’d be the one writing this.
Not after all the advice I’ve given others. Not after the countless land videos I’ve posted on social media. But sometimes, even the wise fall into traps — especially when the trap comes dressed as a trusted friend.
In 2021, my best friend of over 10 years approached me with what seemed like a golden opportunity.
“Guy, this land dey hot. The family wants to sell fast. If you delay, another buyer fit carry am go.”
He sounded so convincing. He even took me to see the land. It was dry. Well-located. He said the family had urgent needs and just wanted a quick cash-out. We even saw a half-done fence around the land.
No agent fees. No drama. Just ₦1.5 million.
And because I trusted him, I didn’t ask for:
Survey plan
Deed of assignment
Proof of ownership
Family meeting minutes or ID
Land search at the land registry
Nothing.
Just pure “my guy no fit scam me” confidence.
I transferred the money.
That was the beginning of a 6-month nightmare.
The real owners of the land surfaced shortly after I tried to fence it. They gave me 3 days to vacate or face legal action. Turns out they had never heard of my friend. The land had never been up for sale.
I called him. He started avoiding my calls. Weeks later, I heard he had relocated to another state.
That’s when I realised something harsh:
Scam doesn’t always wear a stranger’s face. Sometimes, it wears a familiar one.
Lessons I Learned the Hard Way
Friendship is not proof of ownership
Always demand and verify documents — no matter who is selling
Do a land search before payment, especially for family land
Don’t let pressure or urgency cloud your judgment
Have every transaction witnessed, documented, and signed
Today, I teach people how to avoid mistakes like mine.
If you’re planning to buy land soon, remember: land has no emotion, only documents matter. Even your blood brother can mislead you without knowing.
Don’t buy land blindly. Ask questions. Demand documents. Consult professionals.
And most of all — never mix trust with paperwork.
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