My Wife Warned Me — I Ignored Her and Got Scammed

They say a man should listen to his wife, but I learned it the hard way.

It started with a land offer I saw on Facebook. The deal looked too good to ignore — ₦1.8 million for a full plot of land in Lagos, near the expressway. The pictures were convincing, the agent sounded knowledgeable, and the urgency in his voice? Even more convincing.

“Only 4 plots left, sir. If you delay, you miss it!”
That line alone made me feel like I was missing out on the opportunity of a lifetime.

I came home excited. I showed my wife the photos and the flier. But as I spoke, she frowned.

“Let’s at least visit the site first,” she said.
“Did you verify the documents? Who is the developer?”

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I waved her concerns aside.
“Babe, these agents know what they’re doing. This is how land sells fast. You wait, you lose.”

She didn’t push too hard. But she didn’t like it.

The Mistake

I paid ₦1.8 million that week. The agent gave me a receipt and a supposed “survey copy” on WhatsApp. I even told my wife:

“You see? I told you. It’s legit.”

Two months passed.
No allocation.
No physical meeting.
No site visit.

When I finally insisted on seeing the land, the agent stopped picking my calls.

Reality Hit

After involving a friend who’s a lawyer, I discovered:

• The land wasn’t in the location they advertised.

• The “receipt” wasn’t from any registered company.

• The land was under government acquisition.

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I felt foolish. Angry. Embarrassed. But most of all — I felt sorry for not listening to my wife.

The Lesson

✅ Always verify documents
✅ Always visit the site
✅ Always research the agent or company
✅ And yes — listen to your spouse.

Today, I’m sharing this story to offload the guilt and help someone else avoid the same pain.

If you’re planning to buy land, take your time. Verify everything. Or talk to a trusted real estate consultant. It’s better to miss a “good deal” than to lose your hard-earned money.

Have you ever been scammed when buying land? Or know someone who was? Drop your story in the comments. Someone might learn from it.

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